don’t get me wrong, I do not blame the woman in this situation. She was powerless against him and the victim.
I do blame her family, his family, both of their parents. his neighbors, his teachers, everyone this dude ever met for not kicking his ass, or confronting him, and squashing his bullshit. This is a war that goes on everyday around us. People are ready to crack and loose their shit. It is not random. It is not out of control. It is our responsibility to make this stop.
I believe people are a lot more fucked up than they let on, and need to have guard rails in life. Everyone has a job to watch out for these people.